I’m not always dressed “sexy”, nor am I “always trying to be sexy”

I get tired of that assumption. Because I am in a dress, I am not automatically trying to be sexy. I have a curvy figure, and I am very feminine, but I am not always trying to be “sexy”. Sometimes, I like to feel beautiful. Sometimes I enjoy getting dressed up and going out. My life doesn’t revolve around being sexy, though. My life revolves around my intelligence, ideas, and creativity. My mind is what matters to me, first and foremost. So no, when I do want to dress up, making me feel like I’m devoted to my looks rather than my thoughts makes me feel horrible. It actually bothers me. Compliments matter more when they’re encouraging my ideas rather than my aesthetics. Just a little tip.

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